Lord of Life // Holy Hen House Workshop

One week ago all my bags were packed, I was ready to go, and my John Denver CD was playing, Rocky Mountain High and Leaving on a Jet Plane over and over. Amber and I - and our 8 month old baby boys! - were on our way to Colorado. It was the first time we took our Holy Hen House workshops out of Wisconsin!




Up up and away! Babies on board to Colorado! #babiesonboard #leavingonajetplane #colorado #holyhenhouse #workshop

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Our babies brought smiles to all of those that were around us! Thank you to our husbands and other family members that helped stay with our other older children so that Amber and I could travel out West!

COflight The women at Lord of Life jumped right in stuffing folders, registering women, decorating tables, bringing food, adding name tags, and saying hello to friends that came in from near and far. All together we had about 40 women that attended the event even though the weekend was filled with strange weather including hail, rain storms, and snow!

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God used and STILL uses single women, mothers, grandmothers, and widows to serve His kingdom in a variety of ways.

The sessions and topics we chatted about were: 1. Women of All Seasons Unite 2. Being Still & Filled in Christ  3. A Mission Heart... Right at Home




We played the ice-breaker "Me Too!" where women get to know fun details about each other. Besides being women, the other thing that we had in common - the most important thing - is that Jesus is our Savior!




Amber and I played some music and sang some hymns with the women. We played background music during Amber's session on Being Still & Filled in Christ to assist the women to pray and meditate on God's promises. Also, Amber and I had the privilege to play "A Mother's Prayer" by Keith & Kristyn Getty during worship on Sunday. Check out our guest Mother's Day post written by Kristyn Getty here.


After the workshop, we returned home mutually encouraged in our faith! Thank you Lord of Life Lutheran Church of Thornton, CO for hosting us!


It was a long trip and some told us we were crazy to do it but the Lord watched over each step and mile we went. It was a great Mother's Day weekend and when we returned home Amber and I were met with open arms, no more snow, and sweet surprises from our families.

We are grateful for our Christian family that we got to meet in the West. God be with them until we meet again! And that may not be until we cross the real finish line - our heavenly home!


"For this reason I kneel before the Father,  from whom every family in heaven and on earth derives its name. I pray that out of his glorious riches he may strengthen you with power through his Spirit in your inner being, so that Christ may dwell in your hearts through faith. And I pray that you, being rooted and established in love, may have power, together with all the Lord’s holy people, to grasp how wide and long and high and deep is the love of Christ, and to know this love that surpasses knowledge—that you may be filled to the measure of all the fullness of God.

Now to him who is able to do immeasurably more than all we ask or imagine, according to his power that is at work within us, to him be glory in the church and in Christ Jesus throughout all generations, for ever and ever! Amen." - Ephesians 3:14-21


*** If you or your congregation would like to host a Holy Hen House workshop please contact me at amanda@holyhenhouse.com  or click here for more information. You can also fill out our workshop form to help the planning get started! We are more than happy to help you organize an event to fit your women's ministry needs.


Monday, Monday, So Good to Me

As much as I love weekends, Monday morning brings with it the hope of getting back on course and the chore of doing so! Monday means returning to the routines of the coming week. If we work outside the home, we organize our time around the work schedule, family, children, home or aspirations. If we choose to stay in the home, our pace is set according to what we hope to accomplish there. No matter our particular life, Monday lays before us choices for the week ahead. What choices have you made today? Have you thought ahead or are you just waiting for your life to happen? In Titus 2, Paul lays out the results of choices that women of God can make, and the specific reasons for doing so.  Ever since the words were penned to Titus, women have a guide for living each day in God’s way.

Let’s take a look. Paul says to teach older woman to be reverent and respectful in their choice of words and behavior.

Likewise, teach the older women to be reverent in the way they live, not to be slanderers or addicted to much wine, but to teach what is good. Titus 2:3

The outcome of reverence, a word which implies love and respect for God, is a willing desire to teach younger woman. The list of choices here is to be loving to husbands and children, to be self-controlled, pure, kind, and respectful of the role God has assigned husbands as the head of the household.

Then they can urge the younger women to love their husbands and children, to be self-controlled and pure, to be busy at home, to be kind, and to be subject to their husbands  Titus 2:4-5


When I was in my twenties, the Lord called my husband to start a school in California. We were 1500 miles from home, far away from family and friends. During that time my wise heavenly Father began my preparation for what I was to become. He arranged several mentors to walk with me on this journey, various men and women who loved the Lord. Each encouraged me to live out my unique life for God’s purpose.

As I mentioned in an earlier blog, one of those mentors was a seventy-five year-old man named Mr. Haynes. He had a first name, Irv, but I could not bring myself to call him that because I respected him so much. During our twelve years of friendship, Mr. Haynes taught me how to garden, how to build furniture, how to appreciate classical music, how to enjoy poetry, how to respect my husband and understand him. He also taught me the names of every native and imported plant in California, among many more valuable skills.

Mr. Haynes had been a Christian minister, and then life moved him on to being a human resource director at a very large company in Los Angeles. I met him after his retirement, at our back fence, as a neighbor. He knew the name and uses of an exotic fruit bush growing on our adjoining properties. He also possessed a keen understanding of what humans need to improve and develop. I guess I needed help, because I became his project.

Mr. Haynes understood my faith, and yet he saw the immaturity and lack of skill in putting my faith into action. I had head knowledge and no practicality in putting what I said into action. Through the years he patiently helped me learn. Looking back, I now see that he was instilling this attitude in me: You are what you are becoming.

Here’s what I learned in a nutshell. If you want to become a gardener, be one now. If you want to become knowledgeable, study your topic thoroughly. If you want to become loved and respected by others, be loving and respectful to others. Not rocket science, but I was a wannabe and a lost little soul without direction. He helped me see myself and my future more clearly by teaching me how to focus on it now.

How about you? Can you imagine yourself in thirty to forty years? What will you be doing? Who will you have become? What will family, friends and peers be able to say about you? Will you be living out your life’s purpose?

These are tough questions to answer because they lie in the future. The truth is, only God knows the answers to what your life will be and how you will live out your purpose. However, God’s Word gives a glimpse of where to focus. Through faith, we can pursue a life worthy of the gospel, confident of the results. A great place to start is found in Proverbs. Here we see the outcome of a believing woman’s life, a life lived God’s way.

She is clothed with strength and dignity; she can laugh at the days to come. She speaks with wisdom, and faithful instruction is on her tongue. Proverbs 31:25-26

Would you like to be this woman? Take a whirl in Titus 2 and Proverbs 31. God has work for us to do and attitudes to instill as we are becoming more like Christ. A skeptic might read and ask, why are we encouraged to be reverent, loving, pure and kind? Look for the answer in Titus. To give glory to God; so that others around us will not malign the Word of God, but see our lives as an open book. Our character is a witness to the truth of God’s love for us in Christ. It’s our high calling as God’s girls.

Whether you are a younger or older woman, can your choices this Monday and every day be more focused on becoming a Titus 2 and Proverbs 31 woman? With God’s help, and with his encouragement to live out our lives for him, the answer is yes. Yes, we can confidently set our hearts on “being what we are becoming”, women of faith and women of purpose, reverent, loving and respectful.