Pro-Life Egg Challenge


What is the Pro-Life Egg Challenge? 

The Pro-Life Egg Challenge is an attempt to raise awareness and funds to support pregnancy resource centers as alternatives to Planned Parenthood.

This challenge is not a "holier than thou" snub at women that are currently pregnant without support or against women that have had abortions. We have friends and family that have been in challenging situations from unplanned pregnancies. Women are not hopeless! In any circumstance women need unbiased care and compassion, both of which Planned Parenthood has lost credibility to offer. Let's do something about it!


How do I participate in the Pro-Life Egg Challenge?


1. ACCEPT: Accept the challenge;

2. RECORD: Take a video of you or others smashing an egg over your head to increase awareness;

3. UPLOAD: Upload your video to social media, tagging/challenging at least three of your friends;

4. GIVE: Make a donation to a pregnancy resource center or home for single mothers. You can donate money, gifts, or volunteer your time. Find one near you here.



How did the Pro-Life Egg Challenge start? 

Undercover investigator David Daleiden has shared four (so far!) undercover graphic videos of Planned Parenthood leaders talking about harvesting fetal tissue for financial gain and some showing the process of selecting organs and limbs of a post-aborted baby. The videos have been accused of being edited to trap Planned Parenthood but the content is the same in the full length videos. In one video they even identified the gender of one baby. A boy! May his short life not be in vain. I have decided to not share the videos here because of their graphic content. If you would like to view the undercover videos click to see number one, two, three, and four.

I have seen requests for people to sign petitions and letters to defund Planned Parenthood. 48% of their funding comes from tax payers. There has to be something more that we can do.

One year ago Facebook was filled with 17 million videos of kids and adults pouring buckets of ice water over their heads raising awareness and donations for Amyotrophic lateral sclerosis (ALS). The ALS Ice Bucket Challenge was a trend in social media unseen like anything else before.

What if we could do something on a similar scale to the ALS challenge that can offer direction to women in need? a guilt-free future for herself? a life for her baby?

There have been over 58 MILLION abortions in the US since 1973: Roe vs Wade. In one year there are at least 300,000 abortions performed by Planned Parenthood. Our challenge is to match that number with the amount of Pro-Life Egg Challenge videos from those that support babies lives at all stages. Life begins at conception. The egg is either fertilized or it is not!

Will you submit a video and give a voice to one of the 300,000 voices unheard from this year?


Besides sharing the video what are other ways I can help?


1. Find a Pregnancy Resource Center to donate your time, money, or gifts to. Often, those that are pro-life are criticized for not having realistic solutions for women's health as an alternative to Planned Parenthood. If Planned Parenthood goes, where do women go? Time to put money where our mouth is. Join me in finding health centers that support life from conception and direct our money to them instead.

Women that are single and pregnant may feel guilty, afraid, lonely, and defensive. What we say online and in person has an impact on how they view Jesus. We should be a safe-place for them and shame on us for not doing a better job listening and supporting them.

Other ideas include: homes for single moms like New Beginnings help women finish their education and get an established job, help a Mobile Pregnancy Resource Center Clinic campaign, or the Open Ultrasound program for pregnancy centers in need of ultrasound equipment.


2. Do not be silent. Give voice to the unborn! Those that are for abortion seem to be in the majority. The media may ignore the issue in favor of Cecil the African lion. The President may choose to not watch the videos. It can be intimidating to even think of sharing a social media post in defense of the unborn. Our friends may not agree! They may not like us anymore. We may feel uncomfortable.

What is more uncomfortable? Feeling the push back from our social media friends or watching the video where true innocent lives are being pulled apart limb by limb? That baby was more uncomfortable than any of us. That baby didn't have a choice but we have a choice to speak up for them in their place. We are responsible to do something!

Speak up for those who cannot speak for themselves,     for the rights of all who are destitute.  Speak up and judge fairly;     defend the rights of the poor and needy.

Proverbs 31:8-9


3. Send a letter, an email, or call your state's two senators here


4. Sign petitions to help defund Planned Parenthood. Here are several petitions from Planned Parenthood Exposed, American Center for Law and Justice, & Life Petitions.  


5. Consider foster care or adoption. "In the U.S. there are over 400,000 children living without permanent families in the foster care system. 101,666 of these children are eligible for adoption, but nearly 32% of these children will wait over three years in foster care before being adopted." Source: AFCARS Report, No. 21

You can do a great deal of research on the internet, but we found the best way to find out more was to go to an informational meeting. You can find these through your local Department of Child and Family Services (DCFS) in your county. These meetings give a good overview of what foster care is, what the different types of foster care are and what the next step in the process would be. For more information about getting started, read here.


6. Talk about sex with your daughters AND sons. Even when we don't expect a pregnancy, babies are not a punishment. How would the following impact a teen's attitude towards unplanned pregnancies?

"Don't have sex before marriage because you will get pregnant. If you have a baby you can't finish school. How are you going to work and support the baby? Consider your life over if you get pregnant!" Talking this way to sons and daughters makes a baby seem like a punishment and a hopeless future.

My mom was a teen mom. Far away from home and at seventeen she married my dad, gave birth to my brother and had my sister a year and half later. She did not finish high school but earned her GED later. She worked hard to help support us and still obtain her goals. My mom built her way up the mechanical engineering field starting from the factory floor, owned her own business, has her master's degree in education, and is a mentor to teen girls and boys as a high school STEM teacher. I am incredibly proud and honored to call her mom.

I have grown up with children being described as a blessing, a gift, a treasure. My mom chose the way that wasn't easy but the way that was right. She has been rewarded. She is a mother to three and a grandmother to six.

What would happen if your daughter got pregnant? Does she know that you would be supportive of her and the baby? Will your son have a say in seeing his child ever? Can they trust your reaction so that they can come to you instead of thinking they have to solve the "problem" on their own? You may not be able to control the world or even your own child but we can control how we respond to challenges. With judgment alone? or with grace?


7. Do not be overcome by evil. But overcome evil with good. 

Do not repay anyone evil for evil. Be careful to do what is right in the eyes of everyone. If it is possible, as far as it depends on you, live at peace with everyone.  Do not take revenge, my dear friends, but leave room for God’s wrath, for it is written: “It is mine to avenge; I will repay,” says the Lord.  On the contrary:

“If your enemy is hungry, feed him;     if he is thirsty, give him something to drink. In doing this, you will heap burning coals on his head.”

Do not be overcome by evil, but overcome evil with good.

Romans 12: 17-21


If Planned Parenthood can't be responsible we should be! Mothers and their unborn babies' futures depend on it. 

Will you submit a video and give a voice to one of the 300,000 baby voices unheard from this year?


A Lesson in Trust // A Mother's Prayer

Verse 2 of "A Mother's Prayer" by Kristyn Getty This world is not as it should be

but the Savior opens eyes to see

All that's beautiful and true

Oh may His light fill all you are

And the jewel of wisdom crown your heart

This is my prayer for you

There are many fascinating and beautiful things about becoming a parent. There is a new found love that you couldn't have ever imagined until you looked into your child's eyes for the first time. There is a new found patience that you never knew you had until you witnessed yet one more tantrum. There is a new found fear, as you watch your child grow, develop, learn, play, eat, and sleep. Will my child grow to be big and strong? Will my child learn easily and find a great career someday? Is my child eating enough vegetables? Is my child eating too many cookies? Will they get sick? Will they get better? Am I going to be a good enough parent? Will I teach my child the right things? If you are a parent, you know what I mean by fear. You have become the worry wart you always told your mother she was. You have become the protective father you always rolled your eyes at. All we need sometimes is a little perspective to see exactly where our parents were coming from, and sometimes having a tiny and precious peanut of your own is the only way that understanding can happen. You have come to realize all the beautiful parts but also all the challenging parts of parenthood.

I have to say that my childhood was pretty normal. I have my parents to thank for that, because life has thrown us some pretty hefty curve balls along the way. Like our second verse tells us, "This world is not as it should be." There are bad things that happen because of sin. And when I say bad things, I mean that sometimes life sucks.

When I was in middle school, my brother was in a car accident that caused a traumatic brain injury. A little minor surgery, okay major, and he was as good as new! (Well, I think we all assume he was always a little strange. Just kidding, Ray!)

Fast forward to my freshman year of high school. My sister and I were in a car accident on the way home from a basketball game. When we slid off the road and crashed, she was killed instantly at the age of seventeen.

This is where having a child of my own has really put things into perspective for me. This world is not as it should be! My parents learned that the hard way, more than once even! How could these terrible things happen to their precious babies? What is a mom to do when she can't just pick up her daughter or son, give them a kiss, and make it all better? How do you pick up the pieces of your shattered life? How do you just let go of all the dreams you had for your daughter's life? How do you let go of your fears when it seems impossible to do so in the presence of so much tragedy?

This is where the next part of our verse comes in,

but the Savior opens eyes to see

All that's beautiful and true

Oh may His light fill all you are

And the jewel of wisdom crown your heart

We have Christ to look to. He gives us the truth that surpasses all understanding. He gives us life beyond death, comfort when there seems to be no hope, and happiness to dry our tears. We look to John 14 verses 1-4 for comfort. He writes,

"Do not let your hearts be troubled. You believe in God; believe also in me. My father's house has many rooms; if that were not so would I have told you that I am going to prepare a place for you? And if I go and prepare a place for you, I will come back and take you to be with me that you also may be where I am. You know the way to the place where I am going."

How much more comfort can we get than the beautiful truth that Jesus has a place just for us, with Him, in heaven!


My mother could have taken a different path after tragedy hit our family. She chose to continue to trust God. She chose to entrust God with our lives and our safety. To give Him her fears and allow her children to grow up normally. She could have called us every night telling us to come home by a certain time. She could have sat up anxiously waiting to see if we would get home safely. She could have called us everyday at college. She could have smothered us with her own fears. But she didn't. She let His light fill her. She let His truth free her. She let her kids be kids.

It has taken me at least 12 years to come to this understanding--and having a child of my own was the only way to truly get it. I have, when I put it into perspective, the most insignificant and silliest fears for my little Penny. As it is written in Matthew 6,

"And why do you worry about clothes? See how the flowers of the field grow. They do not labor or spin. Yet I tell you that not even Solomon in all his splendor was dressed like one of these. If that is how God clothes the grass of the field, which is here today and tomorrow is thrown into the fire, will he not much more clothe you—you of little faith? So do not worry, saying, ‘What shall we eat?’ or ‘What shall we drink?’ or ‘What shall we wear?’ For the pagans run after all these things, and your heavenly Father knows that you need them. But seek first his kingdom and his righteousness, and all these things will be given to you as well."

And my sister's favorite verse,

"Therefore do not worry about tomorrow, for tomorrow will worry about itself. Each day has enough trouble of its own."


This Mother's Day let's recognize the strength, faith, and trust that our mothers have. Let us renew our own faiths and strengthen our trust in Christ as our Savior. Let us not worry about tomorrow, but focus on the Truth that is beautiful and true. For as a familiar hymn writes, I am but a stranger here. Heaven is my home. We are all on this earth for Christ and by Christ. It is our job as believers (and mothers) to trust that God is in control and knows what is best for our lives, whether they be long and well lived, or short and sweet.