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Most women don’t have supportive Christian women in their lives mentoring them.

We spur women on with the Word of God so that we can approach the Bible with confidence, share Jesus with grace, and speak chatter that matters in a noisy world.

“Let us consider how we may spur one another on…” Hebrews 10:24

But... I'm a Mom.

But... I'm a Mom.


Motherhood. It’s a truly beautiful thing. Growing up as little girls we dream of being moms; rocking little ones to sleep, pushing them around in strollers. Once you become a mother you realize how incredibly awesome and wonderful it is to have the sweet little fingers of a child holding your hand, touching your face and reaching up to you. It’s a calling to be sure. A gift from God, not to be taken lightly. If I didn’t believe that, I wouldn't be part of this blog.

I’m not here today to talk about how we can be better moms and love our families more. I’m going to talk about something a little more difficult.

Anyone who loves their father or mother more than me is not worthy of me; anyone who loves their son or daughter more than me is not worthy of me. Whoever does not take up their cross and follow me is not worthy of me. Whoever finds their life will lose it, and whoever loses their life for my sake will find it. - Matthew 10:37-39

This passage always rubbed me the wrong way. It always seemed so heartless and blunt. Jesus knows I love him more than anything. I mean come on, he is the only person who died for me, of course I love him. However, this past year I've had to do more than say these words, I’ve actually had to live them out. I’m not going to lie, it has been the hardest thing I’ve ever had to do.

When my husband and I felt God’s calling to adoption over a year ago, we started taking steps forward and seeking God’s direction. As he continued to guide us we felt more and more confident in the calling and eventually jumped head first into the Milwaukee County Foster Care system. Before we did, many people in our lives voiced their concerns over how our children would handle everything: a new child in our home, the special needs they might bring, the loss of attention and the possibility of that child not staying permanently. We told them all the same thing: "If God was truly calling us to this life, he was more than capable of handling all those details."

What I didn’t know at the time is that those words are easier said than done. You see, I LOVE being a mom and I LOVE my children. I have the joy of staying home with our kids and I prided myself on my job of raising the beautiful children God had blessed us with.

What I never realized is that I’d let my family become an idol to me.

Oh it was never intentional, or even realized for that matter, but as I started to have to surrender my family to God, I began to struggle. My perfect little family started feeling different. Our peaceful home and family life became our mission field and I didn’t like it. I've heard it said that an idol is anything that you put your weight in to the point that if it was taken from you, you would fall over. Well, my world was shaking as I felt God asking me to give him my family and worry more about serving Him and less about what that would mean for the family I held so closely to my heart. Did I actually love God more than my husband and the little ones he had given me? Did I actually trust that his plan for our family was better than my own? Perhaps a better analogy of how I felt is this:

It is one thing to hear about how a bullet proof vest can save your life, but a whole different ball game to put one on and let someone shoot at you.

I think that for all of us, motherhood (while an extremely important calling from God) can be used as an excuse to say no to other areas in our lives where God may be calling us. Now, please don’t get me wrong, I completely understand the all consuming life of a mother. We currently have a 4 year old, a 20 month old and a 16 month old. But sometimes we as moms say things like “maybe someday, once the kids are in school”, “once I have more time again” or “If I didn’t have young kids, I would love to do that.” But is that God's will or our own? Have we prayed about the opportunities that come along? Are we putting the comfort and security of our families above our call to make disciples? Are we willing to consider the fact that perhaps God could be calling you to be a mother and also serve him in another way?

In our lives of comfort and convenience it’s easy to lose sight of what our children actually need. Sports, activities, treats and birthday parties are great, but those aren’t necessities. What is of utmost importance is teaching our children to:

'Love the Lord your God with all your heart and with all your soul and with all your strength and with all your mind’; and, ‘Love your neighbor as yourself.’ - Luke 10:27

Our goal isn’t to raise happy American kids, but to raise children that love God and live for him.

What this past year has shown me is that letting God “take over” my family, while extremely challenging, has brought more to our children than I could have ever thought. My son, at 4 years old, gets to daily serve God himself by sacrificing little things here and there to help me take care of “Autumn.” He told me the other day that he had too many shoes and that perhaps we should give some away to the kids who don’t have any. When Autumn's siblings came for a visit he sent them each home with a car for them to keep completely on his own accord. If we had said no to foster care, we would have taken away his opportunity to serve God in these ways. Yes, our kids have had to give things up, but what they have gained in exchange has far more eternal value.


God might be calling you to things with your children in tow. I can’t even begin to tell you the opportunities to witness to people that have come up becauseI have three little children with me.

Today I’d like to leave you with a challenge. Are you willing to “daily take up your cross” in order to follow him? Even if that means putting him above your family? I can guarantee you, God loves your children immeasurably more than you do. In fact, he took 9 whole months just knitting them together. He won't let them slip through the cracks because you are living for him. Don’t take your calling as motherhood as a closed door to other serving opportunities in your life. Let the only limits on your life be the ones that God puts there.

Now to him who is able to do immeasurably more than all we ask or imagine, according to his power that is at work within us, to him be glory in the church and in Christ Jesus throughout all generations, for ever and ever! Amen. - Ephesians 3:20-21

1. Start with prayer today. Ask God to reveal the things in your life that you hold the most dear. Then ask God to give you a deeper love for him, one that trumps even those things that came to mind.

2. Ask God to open your eyes to the opportunities for service that he has placed in your life.

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